Sunday, May 2, 2010

Another year older!!!!




SO once again, that time of year has arrived!!! For those of you lucky enough to know me, knows that the birthday for me, is the most marked and special day on the calender.
It comes fully loaded with a countdown and the works

This year was no different, although I did feel a little more lonely, since this year there is not only the family to miss but also Chad.. So naturally I was was feeling a little down..

Often time sin life, we worry too much about whats going on and forget to stop and realise the many blessings in the forms of friends that we have in our lives.
My friends were amazing and treated me the way im used to be treated during by birthday from my family..

We had a wonderful weekend and even the kids at school, threw me a surprise party!!

Even though I missed my family and Chad very much, strangely enough it did feel like I had family with me throughout the special weekend!!!

Hugs to all..
Xoxo..

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Overload of Simple pleasures!!!





I am always reminded, every time I put on my apron and stand in my tiny~lil~excuse~for~a~kitchen, the reason why I came to Korea. To make that dream of becoming a pastry chef into a reality..

And every once in a while, well maybe more often than that, I am in awe of the culinary world especially of the sweeter nature..Last weekend I had the wonderful opportunity to have a day out with my SA girlfriend and fellow English teacher, Mardeyah.
We spent the better part of the afternoon indulging in a strawberry buffet at a hotel in Seoul..
Needless to say, by the end of the afternoon, we had surely OD'd on strawberries..

Whoever said too much of anything isnt a good thing, needs to eat at a strawberry buffet and rethink their statement ♥

Wherever in the world this blog finds you, take some time out to indulge in something decadent today..

Love and hugs..
Cassandra

Sunday, March 21, 2010

The fairytale seems dim right about now~~!!





Sometimes one has to ask whether that good ol' saying GOOD THINGS DON'T LAST FOREVER is true to form or merely just a saying..

The past 7 months of being in Korea were and still are amazing, but ever since I met this wonderful guy and we started dating, the past few months seemed like a fairytale..
The kind of happiness and that floaty~on~cloud~no 9~feeling was something I had never experienced before..

But like the saying goes, all good things must come to an end, well temporarily for us at least. Last weekend Chad left to head back home to the US. Needless to say, it was something we had been dreading, but knowing that something is only temporary and that we will see each other again, made the goodbye a lot less painful!!!

Since then I have been keeping busy, going out and forming new bonds with new friends!!! In my case, baking, cooking and being hospitable is something that allows me to concentrate on what I enjoy doing and forget about the things around me!!

Also the fact that it is the 1st day of spring today, makes me feel a bit better in the hope that Sunny days are almost here..With that being said, it is a good ol 3 degrees celcius here today with mild rain. I guess there is nothing wrong with a girl hoping huh??

I have also began the countdown to return home for a vacation in August. With my iGoogle countdown timer showing a weird number like 135days, 15 hours, 19 minutes and 25 seconds, and ticking away as i type, It is something I look forward to everyday, as is the case with seeing the fairytale continue in the coming months!!!

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

A support system sent from above!!!




This was one of the reasons why I hesitated at the beginning of this experience to begin a blog. Somehow time passes and with the daily going on of life, one tends to forget or dismiss the blog!! But luckily if you are blessed to have a MOTHER like mine, you will be reminded from time to time :-)

Alot has happened in these past weeks. I lost my hearing in my left ear for starters!! In fact that has been the worst thing to happen to me in Korea thus far. With the winter and the fact that I have been getting the flu so ear, i developed an ear infection. So for the past 2 and half weeks I lost my hearing, see an ENT specialist every day before work to get treatment!!! Its been very frustrating, But the very purpose for today's blog entry sheds light on this situation

I could say it a million times in a million different ways but you will never be able to understand!!!
Often times I feel Im not worth the effort that the Man above, puts into me and into my life

Wherever I live and find myself, be it in a small town called Home or in Boston or now in Korea, IM always blessed to have WONDERFUL people by my side..

Im dating a GREAT guy who is always so wonderful to me and takes great care of me...
Im also greatful for an amazing set of friends!!! Without these people in my life, I really dont know if I would make it through each day!!

Whenever the goings are tough and you feel like you have NO REASON whatsoever to go on, stop and look around in your life..You will be amazed at how lucky you are to have wonderful people who surround you with love and the hope for a better day!!!!

This is dedicated to all the great friends out there and the wonderful man that I call Dimples !!!

Xoxo


Saturday, January 2, 2010

A holiday to recover from the holiday !!!!

After months of planning and endless nights of prepping, the James' finally arrived..They came, they saw, they froze their asses off in the awesome Korean winter, they even had a white Christmas!!! But all good things have to come to an end, and unfortunately as I sit at the airport lounge waiting to board my flight back to Seoul alone, this holiday is over!!!

The holidays definitely make you appreciate those closest to you..It makes you cherish those moments that will make a home in your heart for eternity..
There were moments of frustration, little fights here and there, but all in all, we had a wonderful holiday!!!

I am so thankful to have my family, and I consider myself so lucky and blessed to have each and every one of them in my life. Im glad that my parents got to see how I live day to day, to experience this wonderful city of Seoul with me, got to meet my wonderful friends and the great guy that Im dating!!!

Life is wonderful right now, and I hope wherever you find yourself reading this, it is great for you too!!

Wishing you all the best for 2010..Make it your year to shine !!!

Xoxo..Cassandra

Monday, December 14, 2009

A time to CELEBRATE!!!!





So looking back at the last post, it most definitely has been a while..
I must say even though I promised to do my best to update my blog every so often, life somehow happens and passes you by, especially when things seem to be going well and you end up having the time of your life!!! I cant believe a few days ago marked 4 months of me being here..The days really seem to be going so fast and once again we are blessed with this advent season. the time of year to share, give and be surrounded by love, joy, peace, happiness and FAMILY!!!

Ever since I got here, I had known that my family would come to Korea to visit, but now that the time has arrived, leaving me 6 days till they arrive on Korean soil, the words escape me!!! It has been a rather short time, and even though the communication is constant between us, but living in this land, as compared to when I lived in Boston, Korea is definitely harder to adjust to...

Im so glad that I will get the chance to spend this time with mom, dad and Justin. It really does seem like an eternity since I have seen them and I will treasure the time with them ever so much!!!

Whichever part of Mother Earth this blog finds, here's wishing you and yours a Wonderful and blessed Christmas Season...
Hugs and Kisses...CJ

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Celebrating Life with fall in Korea :-)





There are moments in life where you realize Why you are at a specific crossroad in your life at that specific moment...
For some people they receive answers that are as clear as day and for others, they have to literally move to another continent to figure out certain things

I knew before making this decision to come out here to Korea, that my life will be affected in a big way..I know the reason i set out on this journey but little did i know what was in store for me

I am learning and gaining more from the people I meet, than they are learning from me. I am truly happy..I miss home and all things familiar, but I am also loving being here..
There are days, like this day in the picture, that I wish I could share in the joy and amazing beauty with friends and family and those close to me but for now, a picture will have to do :-)

Miss you all..xoxo
Cassandra

Saturday, September 26, 2009

Housewarming :-)



So even tho I have been here for like only a month and half I have been fast exposed to the weird and wacky ways of the korean people..

Like for example, if a person moves into a new place, they will decide whether they should have a housewarming or not..In my case, I sorta had no choice..
My boss has been pestering me for the longest time to throw a house warming party. I kept trying to make excuses or put it off thinking she will forget, but Boy oh boy, was I ever wrong..Eventually this week, I invited them over for brunch..Korean people generally don't do brunch, so it was tough deciding what to make..I asked Sarah, my boss, and she gave me a few ideas. Needless to say, he party was a hit. We had fun, talked, and laughed and just had a good time. I was also lucky to receive Korean style house warming gifts. Toilet paper, boxes of tissue, to last me a lifetime,and a HUGE box of apples...I was very grateful.

My boss and co workers always do their best to make me feel welcome and a part of the team, but as its normal for a foreigner, there are moments that are really uncomfortable, where they are all speaking and laughing and I'm just sitting there. But as each day passes, and the more they get to know me, and me know them, there is a level of understanding and compromise.But my opinion is still the same, I am very glad that I decided to come to Seoul and take up this opportunity to teach. I am learning so much about the Korean people, their culture, even if some of it stinks, and more importantly, this opportunity is teaching me so much about myself,and I know that it will help me grow and mature even further by just being here..

Xoxo..CJ

Sunday, September 20, 2009

Fitting in and developing a routine :-)

So with the big 1 month milestone out of the picture, life here in Korea is pretty muchh normal to me, well almost normal. Im still not used to and ok with the STARES, the pervy old men, and a couple of minor issues..

School continues to bring me great joy, and going to work everyday is my saving grace. It gives me such joy to go in and see those smiling faces, and knowing that with each day, I make a difference in their lives..The older students, are by far my favorites. We have become friends, altho sometimes I struggle with drawing the line between their friend and teacher. But for the most part, all is well :-)

My Boss and co workers treat me VERY WELL, and with each day, we too become friends. My boss even asks me for advice (she has a teenage daughter )

In terms of life other than work, it is great. I meet new and interesting people every day. I atend a lovely church with some amazing people. On a Wednesday, I attend a small group Bible Study, which is so nice. Its a bunch of us foreigners and a few Korean people. We study the Bible and also just chat and eat and laugh, and learn about each other

I never thought I'd say this, but I LOVE being here. I am learning so much, about the way these people live and the way and lifestyle the kids have to go through. Life for Korean kids is very tough. The kids at my school, go to Public/government schools during the week, from morning till 2. Then at 2 30pm they come to English Academy, and their day ends at like 9pm. This is a norm for these kids. It just gets to me, when Im trying to teach and some of them are literally falling off to sleep cos they are so tired. It is so heartbreaking :-(

With each day that passes Im so glad I made this decision to come out here. I just know that at the end of it, whether I stay only for a year or decide to extend, I will be blessed, and this experience will teach me more about myself than anything I have evr been through..

Hugs to all..
Xoxo

PS, the picture was taken one Sunday after church. We are at a Korean resturant. There is Sarah and amanda, American friends,and Jin, the Korean lady that plays piano at church..

Saturday, September 5, 2009

Paying it forward :-)















So when one lives out in a foreign country or even holidays in certain places, after a while, the accents and the languages that people talk all seem to get to you..
Then you meet people who share the same likes, dislikes, interests and ACCENTS as you do, and your heart almost feels strangely warmed:-)
This is how I feel whenever Im in the company of SA friends whilst Im away from home. For those of you who have never travelled, you probably think IM CRAZEE(as my students say :-)
But for those of you who have, you will understand exactly what I mean.
I was very greatful when I got introduced to Hennie, a fellow SA. He been living and teaching here for the past 2 years so he knows the ropes. And when you are new to a place such as this, knowing someone who knows the ropes, is such a big help. Hennie really has been wonderful to me. Always willing to go the extra mile and help me, and I always appreciated it right from the very start, I knew deep within, that once Im settled in and a bit more adapted to my surroundings, I had to pay this kind deed forward. I had to be there for someone else who is new, just like the way Hennie did for me. I had to be an angel to someone else. Because beleive you me, when you first arrive here, the person who comes to your rescue and shows you the way things are done, seems like an angel sent specifically to you..
So over the past few days, I had been in contact with another SA lady..She had just arrived here and naturally feeling lonely and homesick and out of sorts. A feeling, not too long ago, was something I felt very strongly too.. I knew this mission was mine..
So we had been in contact as often as possible and today we met..It was rather delightful. 3 South Africans at the same table, speaking NORMAL english and enjoying normal light hearted conversation was great. Whenever you are in the company of other foreigners, you always appreciate th english conversation. Just being able to speak at normal Western pace and not having to seak super slow just so the other person can understand your every word..something that you have to do whilst in a foreign place...
We met for typical and traditional Korean BBQ. This is the very reason why they are so bloody thin..No potatoe salad, cloeslaw with mayo etc..Just meat, veg (raw usually), and not even a plate to eat it with. The meat gets BBQ'd on the table in front of you, then you add your SIDES, and it is wrapped in lettuce or other different leaves and rolled like a wrap and eaten..We had duck today, something that I love and might I just add, I think it was the BEST duck I have ever had the pleasure of eating :-)
As time passes, I find more and more reasons to love this country. Ok well I think thats me pushing it, not LOVE, like is more appropriate...
Im so greatful for this experience, even though its still pretty early, at only a month here, I can tell that this experience will teach me alot about myself and will help me grow in more ways than one..
I look forward to what the next 11 months has in store for me..All I can say is that, with great friends and me appreciating my job and loving my students more and more each day, IM ready to face the challenge.



Tuesday, September 1, 2009

How adorable are they ????



























So i just could not resist blogging about this. Every month I teach the kids a particular set book and at month end, on the 2nd lasy day, they have their final tests. On the very last day, they have their SPEAKING FESTIVAL, also known as the Speech contest. As this was my very 1st one, I was super excited.


I was named the Head judge, something that I knew would not be easy. I have SO many favorite students, how would I possibly choose a winner?????????????


When It came down to decision time, I was like pressured into choosing. My boss Sarah, would say to me, in he usual joking way, CASSANDRA, BALLI BALLI, WINNER NOW!! Balli balli is the korean word for QUICK QUICK..


Anyway It was the most fun I have had in a while. I never imagined that something as simple as a speech contest would give me so much joy


It is very important in life to give off your best at all times. Excellence in the workplace is vital to live and lead a healthy and prosperous life..

working for only a pay check is not worth it. Do something to reap greater benefits..My ultimate dream and goal in life, the reason for me being here as most of you know is to become a Pastry chef, and I may never become a teacher, but the moment I step into that classroom, I try to do the best I can do, and I become the BEST teacher I could possibly become..


And as I walk home every day and listen to my ipod, and reflect upon the day gone by, I smile to myself. For I know I made a difference :-)
Hugs..
Xoxo

Monday, August 31, 2009

Finally settling in..

This will not be the usual long ol' blog post. This is just a quick update to let you all know that I am ok, well emotionally at least. My health would beg to differ..Over the past week or so I have been really ill with a toothache. Not just any toothache per se, but the WISDOM tooth. It needs to be extracted but because I just started work, like only a month or so, I cant afford to take time off work. So I just got some prescription meds and taking those for a while..


apart from the toothache, all is well. Im settling in much better than when I first got here. I find something to love about this experience each and every day. Well I try to at least :-)


School is great. Im surprised at how good a teacher I am :-) And that is just me having an ego, but the students have been telling my boss great things about me..Hearing things like makes me feel so good and appreciated. Like Im worth something and my days o feeling homesick etc are not going in vain..The kids are amazing. I know I keep saying that, but they are..I have been able to connect with ALMOST all of my students ona personal level, but there are 1 or 2 who are tough nuts to crack..But with time, i'll get there...


Church is great. every week that I attend, I meet more and more wonderful people and new friends...even the kids at church are adorable..There is a picture of them attached at the bottom..


This week is PAYDAY. My 1st one since I got here, so as you can imagine, Im elated, and over the moon...


Anyway will write later this week. I celebrate a milestone later this week and I promise to write about it..


Whichever part of the world you are reading this, I hope all is well with you and yours..

Hugs..Xoxo

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Always guided by a higher power..


I have always tried to live my life on the straight and narrow. I must admit, that I have made LOADS of mistakes but I have come to terms with alot of things along the way, and throughout my life's journey, I have lawya felt like my path has been uided by someone upstairs.

I often think to myself, "Wow, someone up there must really like for this to be happening", and needless to say, this experience of being in this strange, weird and wacky land, is no different.
My 1st week here, was horrible to say the least. I kept praying and asking HIM whether I have made the correct decision, or whether HIm guiding me was a mistake..
But something on the inside always knew, that Id soon hear HIS answer. I also felt very lonely and empty. Sure I have made some good friends, but something was just missing..

On sunday, I found it. The 1st time ever since I got here, I felt welcome and I felt like I could be myself. I hooked up with an American couple(Husband and wife teaching here, living only 5 minutes away from me)
I met them via facebook cos I was at the time searching for a church. So she met me at a bus stop close to ur houses on sunday. We hopped on a bus, and we were on our way. The church is a Presbyterian church and about 15 minutes away from us. The 2pm service is one designed mainly for foreigners. It was SO good to just be in church and with other foreigners. We had small group bible study around 2. And the service began at 2 30pm. It lasted for an hour, and the minister is a korean lady, who studied in the US for a while, so her English was much better than the average Korean

Needlesss to say, I was shocked at how I was led to worship in that particular church
I met a South african guy, Hennie, who has been living in Korea for 2 and a half years. We became friends instantly and were very happy to be in the company of another South African...

I got home that afternoon, and was just amazed at how changed I felt. I couldnt beleive that 1 hour can change your whole outlook on things. I felt so ready and prepared for the week ahead

Later that evening Hennie skyped me to invite me to Lunch the next day. Since I only gotta be at school at 1pm, we met around 11am and did coffeee, then we had Japanese for lunch. He also introduced me to anohter foreign teacher(American) who works at the school he is at. The 3 of us had a good ol' time over lunch,a nd yet again, I felt ready for the week ahead
The very next day I had planned on going to Uijeongbu to get my Alien Registeration card, something that all foreigners with a work permit, need to have. Hennie was kind enough to offer to come with me to show me around, as it gets a bit tricky for a 1st timer..

We spent the morning together. I sorted out my ARC, and should recieve it sometime next week.

As I look back on the weekend and week that is almost over, I am amazed at how loved I feel. at certain stages in my life, I have always thought that things couldnt get any worse, but Im always proven wrong..
These past few weeks have been so tough, but I feel so blessed to have been led to meet certain people..Im also glad that Im not alone, for a silent companion is with me at all times..

This ones dedicated to all the wonderful people I have met in Seoul thus far and all the people who have been led onto my path of life, along the years. You know who you are..This one goes out to you all..

Love and hugs..XOXO

Saturday, August 15, 2009

2nd weekend in SK..Are u kidding me??










Ok so if you are reading this, i made it through yet another week. and this week I feel like I deserved a medal or something.

This week was a rough week. The kids and the teaching bit is still great but the working hours are like really getting to me.. I gotta be at work at like 1 pm and official work times are like 2 30pm till 8 30pm, but once i arrive at 1 pm, I sometimes only have my 1st class at like 4 30 or sometimes even 5 30pm..

So I was getting totoally p'd off about that..
Other than that, all is well

Tonight was the 1st time in like 3 weeks I ate red meat. And might i add, it was the best steak I've eaten in a a while. I went out with my friend Anneshia, and another American teacher called Omega. Was so great hanging out and catching up..

Anyway gota get to bed..Write soon..Xoxo

Monday, August 10, 2009

Outlook for the 1st Weekend


I must admit that there were moments that I was very homesick over this past weekend, but on a day like sunday, all that was a thing of the past


I met my cousin Vanishree and her fiance Paul. We took the subway downtown to a place called Itaewon. A big FOREIGNER area, so it was great seeing NON KOREANS. Nice every once a a while to be surrounded by only English speakers, rather than by people staring at you like you from outer space or something...


The subway was like totally packed to capacity and it was insanely hot. So w didnt stay out too long, just had lunch at a nice American style burger place and thereafter Van took me to a foreign food store where I managed to get a few odds and ends which the local grocer doesnt carry..


Anyway the day turned out preety good and thanks to them both, I feel like I can get through this week and maybe even this experience cos a big part of me thinks otherwise...


Hugs..CJ

Biggest Scare of my life...




So this entire week ever since arriving here, I have been getting up from bed around 11 00am. The gives me enough time to do what I need to and be at school at 1 00pm. So this morning I woke up a bit early around 10 00am and could hear this weird buzzing sound. I realised that my intercom was being buzzed. Now who would want to buzz me?
When I picked up, he spoke in Korean, and I just said, “ENGLISH”? He said “Aircon”..And he said the name of my school so I quickly put on some decent clothes and began to open the door. There are 3 lock attachments on my door (I will attach a picture below). As I tried to open the door, I realised I couldn’t. Somehow it was stuck. Panic then started to set in. I tried with everything I had but the door wouldn’t budge. It began to feel as though my chest was closing in and I wanted to scream.
I then realised I didn’t even know the Korean name of my teacher, I only know my principal by her English name, as they all have English and Korean names. I opened the mesh covering on my window and told him via sign Language to phone my school. I then realised my principal had sent him to sort my aircon out because he said the name of my school, which for the purposes of this blog I will not mention the name because if someone had to Google the school name. This blog would come up on their Google search, and we wouldn’t want that now, would we???
Anyway he tried calling the offices, but then He signalled to me that the offices were closed so no luck.
At that moment I started swearing myself and the principal for me not asking her phone number and for her not having the decency to give her number to me. And I was even more pissed at that fact that I didn’t even have internet access yet so I was like basically stuck. Eventually through the window the kind Korean man was able to show me what I need to do on the lock. Apparently there was a security feature not he lock that I had mistakenly pulled so that it wouldn’t be opened. After sorting that out he came inside and sorted out my aircon, which I didn’t even know was troubling me.
I know you probably sitting there thinking, what is she going on about. But for that moment, it was the biggest shock of my life. I really thought I’d be stuck here. I actually felt the walls were closing in on me. Laugh all you want, but you try living in a foreign place alone and not having the best and most helpful principal. Lets how you would react. Anyway gotta run. Need to get ready for school. Pictures of the lock to follow....Till next time..
XOXO..CJ..

Friday, August 7, 2009

My 1st Weekend in SK

So its ealry Saturday morning. Today I had to be up early because my principal was kind enough to get the internet guy to come set up things for me at home. as you can imagine, I was like totally excited. I never been so excited for something that seems so trivial in a long time. While the guy was here sorting stuff out, she came over and brought me some Korean energy drinks and came to make sure all was in order..

Now this whole week that went by, I also didnt have my gas working, so I was unable to make even a cup of tea. so while she was over today, she managed to sort even that out..
So I sit here at my desk, with a cup of 5 roses in hand and just surfing the net, downloading whatever I need to..

For those of you reading this that have SKYPE, please add me on the name, Cassandra-Seoul.
Would love to chat and catch up soon

Today Im just going to chill and take some time off. Nothing really planned for the day

Tomorrow, my cousin Vanishree, who's fiance is visiting her from SA, will come and visit me in my city. We are probably just going to meet for lunch and chat a bit..

Then its the start of the new week
Its aamzing how something small can change your mood.. With me getting connected up today, I feel so much beeter and I know that in time, things will get even better..

Well till next time..Keep well

God's little angels

So I got to work today and was all prepped up to confront my director about a few issues. When I spoke to her about my internet connection (When I decided to connect wirelessly at home, it asks for a password), she tells me, “Cassandra, it is already set up. It has been from the 1st day you arrived here. I was like WTF, are you like kidding me?? SO I told her about the password thing, and she said she’d get back to me. I kinda figured that was not going to happen today. There were also a few other things I needed, but when I asked her, I didn’t get much help.
Just yesterday one of my Facebook friends I should go to a 7/11 (American store for those of you who don’t know) and buy a 10000 Won(roughly $10) international calling card. The cards can be used on a pay phone or landline or cell phone. The only problem is, because I don’t have cell phone as yet, I cant seem to find a pay phone anywhere. I don’t know what I expected of the principal, but a little understanding would have been great. When I asked her about this little issue of finding a payphone, cos like it’s been 3 days and I haven’t spoken to my parents yet, she directs me to a payphone which is like way outta my way. Here’s to me being understanding and thinking tha she’d allow me to use the office line..
Anyway I was on my last class at about 7 15pm, almost working out, when I saw this familiar face sitting in the principal’s office. I realised then that it was my Facebook friend, Anneshia. She had been reading the blogs and facebook posts of me being way sad and totally homesick and hating it here, that she decided to ask someone for directions to my school and come surprise me. I really couldn’t believe my eyes. I was so ecstatic. I then thought because I had finished class early, my principal would understand and let me go early, only to find out that was wrong. Even tho I had no class for an hour or so, I had to wait around till official finishing time of 8 30pm. Soon as it arrived, Anneshia and I left school and she decided to show me around. Turns out we live not too far from each other. She lives very close to my school and closer to the subway station than I do. Her apartment is so awesome. I keep telling her to be grateful for what she has. She treated me to dinner, my 1st official one since getting here. It was KFC, and yet the best ever since I remember eating KFC. She then took me back to her apartment and let me use her internet access and her cell phone so I could call mum. After leaving her apartment, she told me she is away this weekend so if I want, I am more than welcome to stay over at her place cos she’s hooked with cable tv and internet. As I walked back to my place, I thanked God for allowing me to meet someone as amazing as Anneshia. I am so glad to have met her and her gestures today, are something I will never ever forget. Love you girl....

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

The dreaded apartment...






















.. And here I assumed that all the stories I read by all the other ESL teachers, were exaggerated. Little did I know what I was getting myself into? When the principal dropped me off, the look on my face was priceless to say the least. The flippin’ tiniest thing I ever saw in my life. The shower is typical for Asian homes I’m told. I was mortified when I saw it. I had seen that dreaded picture of that thing they a shower on many Facebook ESL teachers, but had been praying that I wouldn’t get it. Well as you know, I always have the worst luck. For those of you who don’t have the faintest idea what I’m talking about, I’ve attached some pics of the shower and the apartment. In fact it is not even worthy to be called a shower but hey, I guess that’s how these people live. It just has a shower nozzle thingy attached to the bathroom sink, and when you switch it on, the entire bathroom gets flooded. The water goes all over, including the toilet seat and the bathroom cabinet. To you guys reading this, it may be a small thing, and you may be saying, “What the heck is this chick going on about”, but to be honest, I don’t know if I’ll ever get used to this kinda living space.
I have been told by all the other ESL teachers who are in my shoes, that the trick is to just make it my own, which is exactly what I intend dong over the next few weeks.. With absolutely no exaggeration on my part, it was everything that I had hoped it would not be. The guy that lived there before was obviously a slob and as you can imagine things were a mess.
The only good thing about him was that he had left a few cleaning supplies behind so I had a little of that to start. The first thing I did was try to clean the bathroom and kitchen. It made a tiny bit of difference but not much as it needs a through clean up. Im told by some teachers that in your first month, it is very possible to spend every cent you have on cleaning materials. There was also a few other things that the place didnt have, which I desperately need to get. A kettle, toaster, pot and wet wipes are a must..
At the moment I totally dread this experience and the dreaded apartment. I really do hope things get better and from what Im told, what Im feeling about now is totally normal and expected. Im also still waiting for the principal to hook me up with internet connection and cell phone. I really believe once I get that, it wont be that bad. But for the moment, lets just say it isn’t what I had expected.
Will update you tomorrow on how the teaching is going, the kids and the staff